evidence-based Therapy

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Lauren Helm Lauren Helm

When Conflict Activates the Nervous System: A Research-Informed View of Why Couples Get Stuck

Most couples don’t argue because they don’t care. They argue because stress takes over in the moment. When conflict activates the nervous system, it can be hard to think clearly, stay empathetic, or feel connected, even with someone you love. This article explores how stress responses shape couple conflict and what helps restore safety and connection.

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Lauren Helm Lauren Helm

Rumination in Interpersonal Conflict: Why It Happens and How to Stop the Cycle

After interpersonal conflict, many people find themselves replaying conversations, analyzing intentions, or questioning their own reactions. While this kind of thinking can feel productive, it often keeps the mind stuck in distress rather than leading to resolution. This pattern, called rumination, is a common focus in therapy, and one that can be approached with effective, evidence-based strategies.

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